Breaking the Gender Code with Katie Binger
Have you ever stopped to wonder how gender shapes the way we communicate? In this episode of Campus Chronicles, I sit down once again with the insightful Katie Binger to dig deeper into the world of gender and communication.
Stereotypes, Assumptions & How We Talk
Katie challenges the age-old misconceptions about how men and women are “supposed” to speak — from the belief that women are more emotional, to the idea that men should always be assertive. She highlights how these ideas aren’t just outdated, but actively limit our ability to connect honestly and respectfully with others.
Moving Beyond the Binary
Rather than viewing communication through a binary lens, Katie encourages us to recognise the spectrum of expression. She shares her own experiences of how gender expectations show up in everyday conversations — in classrooms, relationships, and online spaces — often in subtle but powerful ways.
The Cost of Conforming
We explore the emotional and social consequences of sticking to rigid gender norms. Whether it’s men being discouraged from showing vulnerability, or women being labelled “bossy” for being direct, these roles can create tension, misunderstandings, and missed opportunities for genuine connection.
“The more we force people into categories, the less we allow them to be fully themselves,” Katie says. “And that affects how we build trust, empathy, and relationships.”
Tips for More Authentic Communication
Katie offers practical advice for breaking the gender code:
- Listen without assuming intent
- Be mindful of the labels we place on others
- Create room for people to speak in their own voice, not just what’s expected of them
A Must-Listen for Students & Educators
This episode is especially relevant for students navigating group work, relationships, and identity. Whether you’re exploring gender in your studies or reflecting on your own experiences, Katie’s perspective offers a valuable lens on how communication shapes culture — and how we can shape it back.
For more episodes that challenge assumptions and elevate student voices, browse the full Campus Chronicles archive.
